Have you ever hopelessly muttered under your breath, wondered in silent frustration, pleaded desperately, or even shouted angrily…
“Woman – What the *#@& do you want from me???”
I know I sure have. It’s a hard place to be.
But what if you actually knew the VERY REAL answer to that question every single time… Even when SHE doesn’t?
And what if knowing that VERY REAL answer meant that you could heal the hurt between you and move forward together – uncovering the attraction, loyalty, respect and understanding that’s been lost along the way -WITHOUT compromising or sacrificing your own personal power, freedom or manhood?
The truth is…
The challenge you are facing in your marriage right now is ALSO the biggest transformative opportunity in your life.
The thing your wife wants most from you (I mean REALLY wants, whether she says it or not) is PRECISELY the thing that will tip the scales on your own personal growth and help you become stronger and more capable, with heightened clarity and a stronger sense of purpose and meaning in your life.
If you are willing to consider this possibility – if there is some small sense of “rightness” in these words – I can help you. Probably I can help you a lot.
How can I speak with such certainty?
Because I’ve been there and I’ve seen hundreds of men in the same place.
I’ve personally gone through the pain of losing a marriage that meant everything to me. I had to face the agony and the shame of failing my two year old son in a way I swore I never would. See, my life goal was to reverse the history of broken homes, abandonment and dysfunction that had run rampant for generations in my family. But I failed. (At least, I thought I had at the time.)
After failing to save my marriage, I went on a mission to discover how to make relationships work. I spent years studying psychotherapy, counseling and coaching methods. I searched for some secret… some insight.
I discovered that most of my therapist, counselor and coaching colleagues had no more success in relationships than I did. In fact, when I ended up in marriage counseling with my current wife Kim – our couples counselor confided that she saw little hope. Her relationship advice to Kim was to leave me!
I found myself on a familiar path of hopelessness, anger and disappointment. With a new baby on the way, the stakes were high. The turnaround finally came when, with a mentor’s guidance, I discovered my own hidden strengths as a man. No one had ever really helped me see this opportunity before. I had spent my life out of control – blaming others, looking for excuses, never really standing in my own full responsibility and masculine power.
Today I enjoy a strong, passionate, inspiring marriage. Issues still come up (I don’t think that ever ends), but I have the understanding and the tools to work through them. I’m able to lead breakthroughs in those sensitive areas that used to leave us both feeling raw, hurt and hopeless.
My kids are happy and secure. I even have a good relationship with my former wife (never imagined that!) and HER man… after all, he is my son’s step father.
I have a map for helping you lead your marriage breakthrough
It’s a map I’ve now shared with hundreds, if not thousands of men, many of whom have used it to turn their marriage around, even when all else had failed.
There are 3 ways you can get my help right now -
- Read my short, free ebook “End Relationship Drama.” You’ll learn the single most powerful tool I know for transforming relationship challenges fast, and you’ll get a first-hand taste for the kind of work I do with men. You can download this powerful piece of men’s wisdom right now for free, without supplying any personal information whatsoever. One click and it’s yours. My gift to you. Download End Relationship Drama Now
- Sign up for The Hero Principles 7 Week No-risk, Pay-it-Forward e-Coaching Program for Men. Pay only what you choose, based entirely on the value you receive. Learn More - The Hero Principles 7 Week No-risk, Pay-it-Forward e-Coaching Program for Men
- Hire me for one-on-one or couples coaching. (see below)
Hero Principles Coaching is a pro-active, successful alternative to conventional marriage counseling and couples therapy.
Hero Principles Coaching is a comprehensive approach combining -
Training - There are some things about women and relationships that most men simply do not know. It’s not your fault. No one taught you. Just like no one taught me… until I was ready. This is the “information” or “knowledge” part of our coaching.
Inquiry and Process – We ALL have wisdom within us. But accessing this wisdom sometimes requires tough, important questions. I ask those questions. I’ll also take you through some powerful processes to uncover your own answers, clarity and resourcefulness.
Support and Encouragement – If you choose to do this very important work, you’re going to appreciate the support and encouragement of a man who has…
- Personally been there and come out the other side
- Been trained to help others
- Is dedicated to serving men and their families
Accountability - You have to put your wisdom and insight into action if you want to get good results in your marriage. I’ll challenge you to follow through with your commitments, to be the best man/father/husband you can be, and to stay accountable to yourself.
The men who benefit most from working with me are usually married, have kids, and are grappling with some combination of the following:
- Communication with their wife has broken down.
- There has been cheating, lying or a breach of trust.
- Resentment or Anger is poisoning the relationship.
- Hope for reconciliation or relief is virtually gone.
- Sex is non-existent, manipulative, unhealthy or otherwise dissatisfying.
- They’ve had to compromise too many important parts of themselves.
- They don’t know how to be understood.
- Their wife doesn’t respect them.
- Couples counselling or therapy hasn’t worked, or has made things worse.
Men often come for Coaching as a last resort when they are finally faced with losing their family. This is unfortunate, but even at this late stage there is hope and the very real possibility for change.
Of course, some men come when the marriage is done. These men are usually struggling with the emotional fall-out of the relationship ending. They’re often concerned about their children. They want to end it well, and move on skilfully, setting themselves up for success with their ex-wife, AND for a fulfilling, successful next relationship. These men are wise enough to know that they don’t want to drag old baggage into the next chapter of their life.
How much does it cost?
One-on-one Hero Principles Coaching is $600 per month.
or
Pre-pay three months of coaching for only $900.
(That’s only $300 per month = half-price.)
Custom programs and full day intensives are by quotation.
Sessions are by telephone and I serve clients everywhere.
Do you work with Women?
Yes. I have expanded my services to help women and couples too.
Many of the same principles apply. In fact, although men are perfectly capable of leading the transformation in their marriage with or without their wife’s conscious participation, the process is even faster (and more enjoyable) when the woman is on board too.
Conversely, If you are a woman with a stubborn, uncooperative, or shut down man – I can help you call forth his best, truest and most loving qualities. (Get perspective from a guy who’s gone from wishy-washy, one-foot-out-the-door to showing up with Rock Solid Commitment. I know what it takes.)
Getting Started
- Email me to set up a short interview and request a sample client agreement form that spells out the details of the coaching arrangement.
- We’ll determine a start date and session times.
- Return your signed client agreement form and pay for your first month (or 3 month package) of coaching by credit card, email cash transfer, or PayPal.
Contact
Justice Marshall
email coach@coachjustice.com
phone 778 996-3821
Vancouver BC
Canada
